Monthly Archives: April 2018

  1. How many of these labels apply to you?

    How many of these labels apply to you?

    “The identification and acceptance of words that fit a person's experience can help them feel understood and know that they are not alone,” says Elizabeth Watt, Psy.D., a licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist in Bellingham, Washington."

    Sexuality. It's complicated, but thanks to Women's Health magazine, there's no fear of an awkward "who knew" moment looming in your casual conversation future.

    Sex & Love writer Kristin Canning recently put together a handy glossary of 22 sexuality terms with the help of Watt (quoted above in the article) and The Human Rights Campaign, It's Pronounced Metrosexual, and the UC Davis LGBTQIA Resouce Center.

    Read "Polyamorous, Aromantic, Demisexual—And 19 Other Sexuality Terms You Really Need To Know", presented as a slideshow. here.

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  2. 6 WOW (Words of Wisdom) For Great (Gay) Sex

    6 WOW (Words of Wisdom) For Great (Gay) Sex

    On the hightop heels of his YouTube series "6 Gym/Diet Hacks for Better Sex" New York City hunk, personal trainer and all around sweetie Branden Hayward brings you some solid advice for great sex.

    While Hayward delivers his how-to video series assistance of his alter ego drag queen trainer Wanda, here, looking rather fetching in white sheets and briefs, he bares (almost) all to share some wisdom on guaranteeing yourself the sex you deserve.  

    Branden Hayward by Matt Hopkins

    1. When you have sex, you are giving a gift. You are also receiving a gift. Treat it, and expect to be treated, accordingly.  

    Branden Hayward by Matt Hopkins

    2. Surround yourself with sex-positive, open-minded people of various backgrounds. This will give you the opportunity to honestly discuss what is and isn’t working in your sex life, away from the judgment or narrow mindedness you may have grown up around. You can begin to find your sexual “North Star” this way.  

    Branden Hayward by Matt Hopkins

    3. As you figure out what you like, find a diplomatic but clear way to express it to potential partners, also asking them what they are looking for. This will save time and spare stress. Don’t ever be ashamed of your preferences just because they are too ______ (kinky, vanilla, etc.) for someone else. Sex should feel amazing, and that can only happen if you’re enjoying it.  

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  3. Perfect Fit Brand is Official Sponsor of The Black Party Photo Booth

    Perfect Fit Brand is Official Sponsor of The Black Party Photo Booth

    Rites XXXIX: The Black Party® 2018 "PIGTOPIA: I Want to Break Free" is this weekend. Perfect Fit Brand is the offical sponsor of the Black Party Photo booth. 

    For those who are not famiilar, The Black Party is the daddy of all gay fetish balls. With guests jetting in from across the country to around the world, it is one seriously fun party. Extreme decor by this year's Creative Director international queer artist Gio Black Peter and music by the world's best DJs make this the ultimate galthering of the leather/fetish tribe.

    The parties have always been heavily themed. Last year's theme was "Dark Matter," , set in trippy alternate fetish universe. The previous year it was "Submerged," set in a submarine world of brothels, dungeons and decadence lorded over by maritime pirates.

    This year's theme "PIGTOPIA: I Want to Break Free," is perhaps one of the most twisted yet, and described by the creative director as, "set in a new animal Eden, where pleasure becomes a weapon and an act of defiance against forces threatening to take away our freedom. Through peepholes looking in, we glimpse scenes of a happy hedonistic queer Americana."

    The Black Party is clearly not for everyone and frankly, the produces don't give AF. Seriously. There is no press list. Cameras and phones are forbidden; secrecy and respect for ones right to fly his/her/their freak flag without some fool dishing it on social media is foremost.

    But for those to whom The Black Party® is the culmination of a year's patient anticipation (and shopping), it is everything. So, get your lewk together, cause this is one party that doesn't play, when it comes to playing.

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  4. 11 Sex Positions Pretty Much Guaranteed to Help You Orgasm

    11 Sex Positions Pretty Much Guaranteed to Help You Orgasm

    Check out this great post on the Cosmopolitan Magazine website, beautifully illustrated by @LUCYMACARONI.

    Apparently the position in the teaser image at left (or above, depending on your device) is called "The Lusty Leg Wrap."

    Cosmo's Jennifer Benjamin and Jill Hamilton write:

    "Sure, wild, crazy, never-knew-my-body-could-bend-that-way sex might keep your love life exciting, but if your goal is to really learn what works for you, keeping it simple to start is key. "Trying to accomplish complicated acrobatics distracts you from the sex itself, putting your focus on how you can contort yourself, rather than on just experiencing the sensations," explains sex educator Dorian Solot, co-author of I (Heart) Female Orgasm. "When you want to climax, the simplest positions are often also the best positions." To help you get there, here are eleven sex positions recommended by experts to make sure your orgasm is the main event."

    The first postiion is "The Eagle."

    The Eagle by @LUCYMACARONI from Cosmopolitan.com

    The last is "The Sweet Spoons." Read the full post and marvel at all 11 of the gorgeously illustrationed positions here.

    The Sweet Spoons by @LUCYMACARONI from Cosmopolitan.com

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  5. Sex Therapist Says Our Toys Will Change Your Life!

    Sex Therapist Says Our Toys Will Change Your Life!

    In the recent HuffPo story, "12 Sex Toys That Sex Therapists Say Will Change Your Life," Stephen Snyder, a sex therapist in New York City and the author of Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Term Relationship recommended two of our most unique products, The Play Zone Kit and The Bumper. Here's what he had to say about each. 

    The Bumper by Perfect Fit Brand“The Bumper is made by a company called Perfect Fit. This very soft silicone device fits over the base of a man’s penis, reducing penetration depth. Ideal for men with very long penises who can’t thrust freely for fear of hurting their partners — or for couples craving a different kind of thrusting sensation. This video shows how it works.”

    Play Zone Kit with Xact-Fit Cock Ring System

    “Again from Perfect Fit, this Play Zone Kit takes the guesswork out of selecting a cock ring. You get a full set of silicone cock rings of various sizes stacked on a conical tower, so you can experiment with which ones work best for you.”

    Pretty sweet! Thanks Stephen!

    Read the full article on HuffPo. More about Stephen Snyder here.

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  6. The 30-Day Sex Position Challenge

    The 30-Day Sex Position Challenge

    A great little story in the UK's Daily Mail we thought you might enjoy, thanks to a tip from our favorite sexpert and author Karley Sciortino. The tips come from UK lingerie and sex toy retailer AnnSummers.com in celebration of  

    Written for straight couples, but easily applicable across the sexuality spectrum, and illustrated with wooden mannequins, these frisky techniques are handily ranked by difficultry from 1/5 ("The Speed Bump") to 5/5 the "Butter Churner")!

    30 Day Sex Position Challenge Daily Mail Ann Summers

    The Daily Mail thoughtfully shares Ann Summers' how-tos for "The Shard" ("ideal for reaching a G-spot orgasm"), "Four on the Floor" ("Get down on all fours, allowing your partner to give you oral sex from behind") and, the athlectic "Carry On Climax" ("The position guarantees deep penetration and is amazing for full body contact") and 27 other positions.

    < The teaser image to the left is the "Riding High," "This position offers another way to spice up your oral pleasure."

    Daily Mail Ann Summers headline

    From the Ann Summers via The Daily Mail –

    "Couples who feel they are lacking inspiration between the sheets need look no further than this saucy month-long sex challenge.

    Lingerie brand Ann Summers released a list of 30 sex positions and are encouraging couples to try out a different one every day in a bid to beat bedroom boredom.  

    The suggestions range from firm favourites like missionary and spooning, to eye-opening options such as 'The Running Start', 'Leap of Faith' and 'The Bridge'.

    For those who are just starting out, the experts offer easy step-by-step guides on how to get yourself in position - and an instructive image to fill in any blanks.

    So if you're looking for something new in the bedroom - or elsewhere..." 

    – Continue reading The Daily Mail story here.

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  7. WATCH: Perfect Fit Brand is Executive Producer of New Baby Yors Video

    WATCH: Perfect Fit Brand is Executive Producer of New Baby Yors Video

    Photography: Rachel Brennecke

    Something different. Perfect Fit Brand, along with Marco Palou and Chronos Cinema and Prose Productions, is the Executive Producer of "Bad Influence," the newest video by queer New York City artist Baby Yors.

    Not only are we nicely featured in the credits, but the video features a bevy of Perfect Fit Brand toys. Pretty cool.

    Baby Yors by Rachel Brennecke

    Beautifully lit, shot and we hope, properly pampered, making a fistful of cameo appearances were our Amour Tug Lock and Ribbed Ring (below), Cock Armour, Play Zone Kit, and Rook Plug. 

    Baby Yors Perfect Fit Brand Cock Armour Tug Ribbed Ring

    More about the video in this story on OUT.com, which also gave Perfect Fit Brand a nice...plug. Read more about the fascinating Argentinian Baby Yors here.

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