A great article on Advocate.com by writer, singer, songwriter, and producer Nomi Ruiz about sex after gender confirmation surgery.
Prior to surgery, she says in her essay "The Joy of Sex After Gender Confirmation Surgery"
"Early in my transition, I was fed pessimistic anecdotes by other trans women, and ended up carrying these perspectives with me throughout my trans adolescence. I was told I would never get a job so I should pursue sex work, that I would never be loved because a man would always leave me for a cis person, and that if I pursued reassignment surgery I would never experience the true pleasure that cis women experience."
All of these things proved to be lies. In fact, her experience has been the exact opposite.
Read her story on Advocate.com here.